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While relationships and romantic storylines can have a positive impact on our lives, they can also have a darker side. The idealized portrayals of love and relationships in romantic narratives can create unrealistic expectations and promote a culture of romanticism, leading to disappointment, disillusionment, and even harm (Klohnen & Mendelssohn, 1998). Moreover, the emphasis on romantic love can overlook the importance of other forms of love and connection, such as familial, platonic, and self-love.

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